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Of course, if we are to do no harm to children, we will be bound to take many proactive steps; for certain omissions can be as destructive as certain commissions.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The first of these three commandments is found in Matthew 18:6 (KJV):<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The Greek word, translated in the King James Version as \u201coffend\u201d, is <em>skandalizo<\/em>. This word\u2019s literal meaning is to place a trap or a snare in someone\u2019s path. Thus, the New American Standard more accurately renders it as \u201ccauses to stumble.\u201d An offense is literally a stumbling-block, which trips up the walker and causes him to fall. Mothers know what it is to clear the floor of every obstacle when a baby takes his unsteady little runs from chair to chair, from one pair of loving arms to another. She does this to ensure that the baby does not come to physical harm.\u00a0 Parents and teachers must be equally diligent to \u201cclear the floor\u201d of any obstacles that might cause a child any intellectual, moral, or spiritual harm. As Jesus points out in the very next verse, the world is full of stumbling blocks and many stumbling blocks will come, but \u201cWoe to him through whom the stumbling block comes.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Every child is born law abiding. This is not to imply that any child always abides by the law, but rather that every child has a sense of <em>may<\/em> and <em>must not<\/em>, of right and wrong. This is how children are sent into the world, yet still we find girls and boys who do not know what <em>must <\/em>means, who are not moved by <em>ought<\/em>, whose hearts feel no stir at the solemn name of <em>Duty<\/em>, who know no higher rule of life than \u2018I want,\u2019 and \u2018I don&#8217;t want,\u2019 \u2018I like,\u2019 and \u2018I don&#8217;t like.\u2019 Such are the children of seemingly good parents, but parents who are in danger of catastrophic failure, for they have not taken seriously the warning, &#8220;Take heed that ye offend not one of these little ones.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>How is it that a child comes to have little or no sense of \u201cI must,\u201d living only by \u201cI want\u201d? Generally, by slow degrees, here a little and there a little, as all that is good or bad in character comes to pass. \u201cNo!\u201d says the mother, once again, when a little hand is thrust into the sugar bowl; and when a pair of roguish eyes seek hers furtively, to measure, as they do unerringly, how far the little pilferer may go. It is very amusing; the mother \u201ccannot help laughing;\u201d and the little trespass is allowed to pass. Completely unaware, the poor mother has provided an offense. A cause of stumbling has been cast into the path of her two-year-old child. He has now learned that despite \u201cNo,\u201d that which he \u201cwants\u201d may be done with some impunity, and he goes on increasing this knowledge.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Everybody knows the steps by which the mother&#8217;s &#8216;no&#8217; comes to be disregarded, as her refusal is consistently teased into consent. The child learns to believe that he has nothing to overcome but his mother&#8217;s initial resistance. If it is merely her choice to let him do this and that, there is no reason why she should not allow him to do what he wants. The child learns that, with the right kind of persistence, he can make her choose to let him do even what she says he ought not to do.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The next step in the argument is not too great for childish wits: if his mother does what she chooses, of course he will do what he chooses, if he can. Henceforth, the child&#8217;s life becomes an endless struggle to get his own way; a struggle in which a parent is pretty sure to be worsted, having many things to think of, while the child sticks persistently to the thing which has his fancy for the moment.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It is for this reason that children must discover a background of \u201cmust\u201d behind every mother\u2019s, father\u2019s, and teacher\u2019s decision. It is essential that each child knows that mother, father, teacher \u201cmust\u201d not let him break another\u2019s things, gorge himself with cake, spoil the pleasure of other people, give little effort to a lesson, because these things are not right. Let the child perceive that his parents and teachers are law-compelled as well as him, that they simply cannot allow him to do the things which have been forbidden, and he submits with the sweet meekness which belongs to his age. As a rule, children only fight long and hard when they have had the significant experience of winning.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>To attempt to cajole or convince a child to do what is right is usually out of place and is a sacrifice of parental and teacher authority. But a child is quick enough to read in a parent\u2019s or teacher\u2019s face the must, the ought, and the peaceful resolution which rules her. Children almost always submit when they encounter the peacefully resolute \u201cyou must\u201d and \u201cI must hold you to it, for it is a matter of right and wrong.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>While failure to maintain, both personally and from the children, a life of peaceful submission to \u201cmust,\u201d is the foremost stumbling block parents and teachers lay before children; it is somewhat generic. There are very concrete ways in which parents and teachers may offend or cause those entrusted to their care to stumble. Parents and teachers offend children when they allow a child to live in disregard of laws of physical health, laws of intellectual health, or the laws of moral health. Parents and teachers may not allow children to violate these laws through either ignorance or weakness:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Laws of physical health<\/strong> \u2013 Children must eat a nutritional diet, have vigorous daily exercise, and get sufficient sleep. They must be appropriately dressed for the season. These things are not optional, but a matter of the essential stewardship of our bodies.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Laws of the Intellectual Life<\/strong> \u2013 A child&#8217;s intellectual life may be wrecked at its outset by a round of dreary, dawdling lessons in which definite progress is the last thing made or expected, and which, so far from educating in any true sense, stultify his wits in a way he never gets over. Many a little girl, especially, leaves the classroom with a distaste for all manners of learning, an aversion to mental effort, which lasts her lifetime, and that is why she grows up to read little but trashy novels, and to talk all day about her clothes.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Children must be given opportunities to develop many relations with ideas, people, and things; be provided with living books and assigned meaningful work. And it is essential that they be held to a high standard. Diligence is a \u201cmust.\u201d To allow sloth, shoddy work, or the escaping of one\u2019s duty is not \u201cto give grace\u201d but rather to place a terrible stumbling block before a child.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Laws of Moral Health<\/strong> \u2013 Failures in kindness, base humor, disrespect for persons, lack of submission to appropriate authority, there is to be zero tolerance for these or any other moral failing. 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