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Reading and Growing

I conceive a knowledge of books

is the basis upon which other knowledge is to be built.1

 

America’s first president, George Washington, was not educated formally; his two older half-brothers received their education at Appleby School in England. George’s father planned to send him to England as well. His unexpected death, however, prevented George, now 11, from receiving the same education as his brothers.

 

Instead, George received his education by books and tutors.2 In addition to reading, writing, and basic legal forms, he studied geometry and trigonometry — preparing him for his first career as a surveyor. Toward the end of his schooling, George copied 110 Rules of Civility and Decent Behavior in Company and Conversation,3 which would shape his character and conduct for the rest of his life.  His formal education ended at fourteen.

 

Throughout his life, Washington was a voracious reader; he took notes, jotted down memoranda, created personal indices, underlined, and on rare occasions, wrote in the margins. He took the time to thoroughly investigate a topic, collecting information from a variety of sources and perspectives, before pursuing his own opinions and course.4

 

His pursuit of knowledge had been a hard-fought quest to overcome his educational deficit while simultaneously building his career. For him, reading was fundamentally an act of self-construction, a means of intellectual and moral improvement.5

 

Charlotte Mason understood keenly what Washington had learned from his studies:

 

If we are to read and grow thereby, we must read to know, that is, our

reading must be study—orderly, definite, purposeful. In this way, what

I have called the two stages of education, synthetic and analytic,

coalesce; the wide reading tends to discipline, and in the disciplinary or

analytic stage the mind of the student is well nourished by the continued

habit of wide reading.6

 

Maryellen St. Cyr

Co-Founder and Director of Curriculum

Ambleside Schools International

1 George Washington, 1771.

2 His library collection consists of more than 1,200 titles and nearly 900 pages of notes from his reading survive today.

3 Adapted by the 1595 work written by French Jesuit Priests.

4 Issac, Amanda, C., Take Note! George Washington the Reader, Mount Vernon Ladies’ Association, 213.

5 Ibid.,

6 Mason, Formation of Character, 382.

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As Old As Ambleside https://amblesideschools.org/as-old-as-ambleside/ Fri, 09 May 2025 16:27:43 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=2532 Father and son reflect on their 25-year history at an Ambleside School.

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As Old As Ambleside: Father and Son Reflect on Their 25-Year History at an Ambleside School

A work-related move from Portland, Oregon in 2000 led Dave and Leslie White to enroll their youngest son, Paul, in the inaugural fifth-grade class of the first Ambleside School, which opened in Fredericksburg in the Fall of 2000. They became very active in the community and served on various Ambleside boards throughout the years.

 

After graduating, Paul went on to Wheaton College, moved to the Middle East for nonprofit work for two years, and now lives back in Fredericksburg where he sends his two children to the same Ambleside school he attended.

 

How did you find your way to Ambleside School of Fredericksburg?

 

Dave: In the spring of 2000 we had been living in Oregon for 12 years and began to plan to return to Texas for my work opportunity with Edward Jones. Leslie found that a new school was starting while looking for a great option for Paul, our youngest, who was entering fifth grade. Fortunately, she was introduced to a new school opening — Ambleside School of Fredericksburg!

 

Paul: I had only attended public schools in Oregon before the move, so I could immediately tell this was something different and new, and I recall being very excited for the school to start. Then when I moved back to Fredericksburg in 2015 I was asked to serve on the Ambleside Fredericksburg Board, which I did until my term expired in 2021. We then transitioned into the parent role, and have had our oldest son there since 2021.

 

What brought you back to Ambleside as a parent?

 

Paul: The way of looking at children as persons is really a fundamentally different viewpoint than what I see anywhere else. The careful consideration for what our children will learn is also instrumental in our being at Ambleside. But ultimately the short answer is that we see the joy our son has when he goes to school and the joy he has after the day is done, and we know we’re at the right place.

 

How has Charlotte Mason changed your family?

 

Dave: Her educational philosophy as understood and taught by Ambleside has been revealed in Paul’s continued love for learning and understanding of the world in which we live! It has given us a view of a system and philosophy that we have wished we could have experienced firsthand as students.

 

Can you share a story about its impact on your life?

 

Paul: When I went to work overseas I was expected to do many things, from practical tasks like managing the schedule to planning a major peace summit in Cyprus. I remember one of my British colleagues saying to me that she appreciated having me on the team because “you have the confidence that you can do anything, even if you aren’t trained in how to do it.” In reflecting over the years, I attribute that confidence to the ideas instilled in me at Ambleside — that I can do hard things and that through developing habits and strengthening weaknesses, any problem can be figured out and overcome.

 

What has been particularly meaningful for you as a parent watching your kids grow and develop into maturity?

 

Dave: I have always, in the simplest way, appreciated that Paul had a cohesive understanding of educational disciplines that are most often taught in a rather disjointed way. He could correlate history with the arts and literature of a specific time.

 

When your friends ask you about your kids’ school experience, how do you answer them?

 

Paul: The simplest answer to many friends is to give practical differences: we don’t have technology in the classrooms. That really resonates as many of our friends who don’t attend Ambleside attend a private school where every classroom has a smart board, and the children are expected to have personal technological devices as early as fourth grade. I often find myself telling people that intentionality is something they’ll find at Ambleside. There are no neutral actions when it comes to creating an atmosphere, so many friends are struck by the intentional way things are done at Ambleside because of that fact.

 

Tell us about your friendship with the St. Cyrs.

 

Dave: They are some of our dearest and most treasured friends! We have shared great times of sharing life and faith, along with some traveling together. We value the cherished times of sharing poetry, readings, and scripture together.

 

Paul: The St. Cyrs have been good friends to our family since that first year here. Maryellen was a sometimes intimidating figure as the Head of School those first years, and we’ve laughed since then about my childhood perceptions of her during that time. What has struck me the most on reflection is that what was intimidating was that you couldn’t “skate by” under the radar at Ambleside, and it was intimidating to have the Head of the School be actively and actually interested in me and my life. I had never experienced that type of atmosphere before, where you were not just one of many but were seen and appreciated as a unique individual.

 

Bill quickly became a mentor to me and poured much wisdom and advice into my life for which I’m very grateful. To this day, when they come to Fredericksburg we try to get together, and he asks me wonderful, caring, and pointed questions about my life and relationships so that it doesn’t feel as though it has been a year since our last conversation. Some of the very best advice I’ve ever received came from Bill.

 

Dave White

Ambleside Parent & Grandparent

 

Paul White

Ambleside Alumnus & Parent

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Home is the First Classroom: Parent-Teacher Partnership https://amblesideschools.org/home-is-the-first-classroom-parent-teacher-partnership/ Fri, 25 Apr 2025 19:56:03 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=2467 Parents and teachers work together in building the child's character, both at home and in the classroom. Rather than shying away from weakness, they can address it together.

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Home is the First Classroom
Parent-Teacher Partnership

“Parents are the primary educators of their children.”

 

Jill Romine, Principal at Ambleside in Ocala, Florida, references this Charlotte Mason teaching as one of the cornerstones of the Ambleside educational philosophy: the strength in the parent-teacher partnership.

 

The definition of “education” becomes diluted if we limit it to the mere presentation of facts and data points from a teacher in a classroom. Ambleside embraces a definition that also encompasses the proper cultivation of habits, relationships, and disciplines that lead to a fuller life. Parents who want their children to be discipled need teachers to care about how their children handle struggle, how they approach work, and how their children relate to God, themselves, and others.

 

“When there’s a strong partnership between a teacher and parents, there’s trust,” Romine says. “That teacher knows how to look above and beyond just a set of skills that need to be mastered, but rather from a character perspective.”

 

Parents and teachers work together in building that character, both at home and in the classroom. Rather than shying away from weakness, they can address it together. Romine lays out what that can look like in practice.

 

What Parents Can Do to Support Their Children’s Growth

 

Model Healthy Authority

Authority is a good and healthy structure. We all ultimately live under God’s authority and sit under other leadership in one way or another throughout our lives. Parents who understand and demonstrate their authority in the home prepare their children to accept their teacher’s authority in the classroom. Having a healthy relationship with authority is important, as is being able to rest in it peacefully.

 

Build Habits at Home

Habits shape character. Parents can reinforce habits of attention and orderliness by encouraging routines at home — ensuring homework is completed, helping children tidy up after meals, or setting consistent bedtimes. A classroom full of children who are trained in these habits consistently at school and at home is a classroom marked by peace and order, which creates a conducive atmosphere for learning and engagement.

 

Engage in Meaningful Conversations

Rather than focusing solely on to-do lists, we encourage parents to talk with their children about big ideas. Discussing books, history, or moral dilemmas helps children mature, make connections, and think for themselves. “Since the mind feeds on ideas, relating over the good, true, and beautiful as a family is one of the most important things we can do at home,” says Romine.

 

Set Boundaries on Screens

Establish firm limits around screen time. Modeling a healthy relationship with technology and setting parameters around its use in the home communicates that being present with one another matters.

 

Volunteer and Be Present

Parents who volunteer for school activities, like field studies or classroom Handwork sessions, get a close-up look at what their children are capable of. Not only does this support the school community, but it also provides parents with insight into the habits and culture of the classroom, which they can mirror at home.

 

Encourage Perseverance

Ambleside embraces the idea that struggle and delight go hand in hand. Parents can encourage their children to persist through challenges, from a difficult math problem to learning to crochet. Romine notes, “Real growth happens when we’re outside our comfort zone. Children need to experience the satisfaction of working through something hard and succeeding.”

 

What Parents Should Avoid

 

Rescuing Children from Struggles

One of the most detrimental habits parents can develop is stepping in to relieve their child’s discomfort too quickly. This robs children of the opportunity to build resilience and discover their own capabilities. When parents rescue children from every struggle, it sends the message that they can’t handle challenges, which undermines their confidence.

 

Sowing Limiting Ideas

Casual comments like, “It’s no wonder you struggle with this — I was never a math person,” can have a lasting negative effect on a child’s mindset. Such statements can lead children to internalize limitations that might not exist. Instead, parents should convey that learning is a journey and that effort, not innate ability, determines growth.

 

Focusing on Performance Over Growth

A parent’s personal anxiety around performance often filters down to children, creating a pressure-filled atmosphere that detracts from a love of learning. Ambleside aims to cultivate curiosity and understanding, not competition. Parents should avoid comparing their children to others and instead celebrate personal growth and effort.

 

A Beautiful Partnership 

“When it’s really working beautifully is when a parent and a teacher are both laboring together, and there’s a sense of being for one another, with ultimately the end goal being the success of the students. We want the fullest life possible for your child.”

 

Jill Romine

Principal

Ambleside School of Ocala

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It’s Always Storytime https://amblesideschools.org/its-always-storytime/ Fri, 04 Apr 2025 15:04:38 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=2424 Spending time in great stories creates appreciation and hunger for things outside our world, expanding it. Stories make our world bigger.

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It's Always Storytime
The Secret Garden of Education

It’s afternoon recess, and a game of tag is underway at RiverTree School in a northwest suburb of Minneapolis. As two students race across the playground, the chased yells a command over his shoulder to his pursuer, “I love thee not, therefore pursue me not!”

 

In a separate corner of the yard on another day, Robin Hood’s merry men are engaged in a heated stick-sword fight with an enemy just outside Sherwood Forest, which is cleverly disguised as a regular old stand of oak trees on this day.

 

By a generous act of diplomacy, the merry men spare his life and issue an invitation to join their band, which he readily accepts.

 

After reading a chapter in Benjamin West and His Cat Grimalkin during read-aloud time, one student goes home determined to find out if cat’s hair really does make a good paintbrush. The school’s co-founder Marybeth Nelson confirms that it does, according to her own children’s similar experiment and her dear cat’s unwavering conviction to never let it happen again.

 

“It’s a sign of a good book if the children go outside and start acting it out in play,” Marybeth says. “We just give them instruction on how to play with sticks without hurting each other.”

 

Spending time in great stories creates appreciation and hunger for things outside our world, expanding it. Stories make our world bigger.

 

This is readily seen in the play of young children, but the same progression is happening in older students as well. They’re inspired toward the care of women and children when reading about passenger rescue attempts during the sinking of the Titanic. The dystopian societies presented in Huxley’s Brave New World and Rand’s Anthem help students appreciate independence and free thought in a new way altogether.

 

Throughout their Ambleside education, students encounter ideas presented through story in each living book. As they put themselves into the stories, they’re engaging with the ideas held within — and those ideas stay with them.

 

“We all think in stories. It’s how we interact with each other,” Nelson explains. “Stories are how we connect with people, and so I think that stories are also how we connect with ideas. They are the backbone of what we do.”

 

Stories Shape Ideas.

 

Of all the memorable characters in Pride and Prejudice, Mr. Collins is one of the most distinct because of the extremity of his social awkwardness.

 

At her school one afternoon, Nelson overheard a classroom discussing this clergyman’s clumsy compliment of the boiled potatoes at the Bennet dinner table. Eventually, the teacher called on a student whom she had noticed being very quiet throughout.

 

This student shared, in an unexpected moment of vulnerability, that she had never thought of Mr. Collins as being awkward because she could relate to him. “I don’t know what to talk about when I’m at a dinner party or when I’m with new people,” she confessed. “I know I often say the wrong thing or maybe I just make a little comment about the food because I know it’s something safe to talk about. And so he didn’t strike me as so awkward. I could understand where he was coming from.”

 

Nelson said you could tell from her voice that there was a larger question being presented: “Am I also awkward, then?” In the tension of the moment, she waited to see how the other students would respond.

 

But that student’s vulnerability made everybody else enter into the same kind of honesty, admitting they hadn’t considered that they often do the same. The teacher was able to lead the discussion into how they could respond in a similar situation, and how they could show graciousness to a friend who maybe doesn’t know the right thing to do in that kind of setting.

 

“If I made a lesson plan about how to be a good dinner guest and how to make good conversation, that would be really flat,” says Marybeth. “But that story provides the scaffolding to have these interactions that end up being much more powerful.”

 

Stories Shape Relationships.

 

Nelson recalls a particular fifth-grade student who was a very determined individual. When this student landed in Nelson’s office after being escorted off the playground by her teacher, Nelson asked the girl what had happened, and the girl shared her experience.

Knowing the girl needed to calm down in order to be able to think about things in a new way, Nelson turned the conversation to story, asking questions about the book she knew the student was reading in her fifth-grade classroom.

 

“Who is your favorite sister in Little Women?” Marybeth asked the fifth grader.

 

“Mrs. Nelson,” the student answered immediately, “I identify with Jo so much.”

 

After talking further, Nelson asked, “So that’s interesting because Jo also struggled with her temper. Did she ever regret it?” And they talked about when Amy burned Jo’s novel and how angry Jo was. Then after Jo went through the process of almost losing Amy, the two girls reconciled.

 

The student confessed, “Some days I think that everybody just wants me to be like Beth, but I’m not like Beth.”

 

“You don’t need to be like Beth,” Marybeth replied. “Wouldn’t our world be kind of dull if everyone was Beth?” They talked about the other characters in the book, concluding that there’s a reason why there are so many different personalities in the fifth-grade class.

 

Stories Shape Character.

 

We probably read Shakespeare in the first place for his stories, afterward for his characters. . .  To become intimate with Shakespeare in this way is a great enrichment of mind and instruction of conscience. Then, by degrees, as we go on reading this world-teacher, lines of insight and beauty take possession of us, and unconsciously mold our judgments of men and things and of the great issues of life.

 

― Charlotte M. Mason

Marybeth Nelson

Co-Founder and Director of Curriculum

RiverTree School

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Begin At The Beginning https://amblesideschools.org/begin-at-the-beginning/ Fri, 14 Mar 2025 11:00:35 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=2389 Faith in education is more than instruction—it's about shaping desire, intellect, and habits to form hearts that seek what is true, good, and beautiful.

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Begin At The Beginning
The Process of Spiritual Formation in a Living Education

“Only a disciple can make a disciple.” – A. W. Tozer

 

There are two common ways Christian schools have traditionally walked out discipleship with students: 1) by dispensing information about God to students in Bible classes, and 2) enforcing a set of standards for conduct, dress, and speech.

 

These are good and needed practices.

 

But Genesis 3 gives a clue as to the root of where the process of spiritual formation actually begins, and therefore, what we as educators and parents must understand and embrace.

 

“So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was to be desired to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate, and she also gave some to her husband who was with her, and he ate.” –Genesis 3:6 (ESV)

 

Desire

 

Eve desired to be wise, and the crafty serpent presented the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil as the means to become so. Her desire for becoming equal with God was birthed, and her will to attain that desire determined her next course of action.

 

Spiritual formation is rooted in desire. We pursue what we desire, and so we must pay careful attention to what we lift up as good and desirable when discipling students to become more Christlike. To start with behavior modification is to attempt to change the output, but the output, or behavior, actually finds its source in the desire.

 

In a living education, we are working to shape the desire and set a child’s affections toward God.

 

And so we are very intentionally making that which we should desire, desirable. We’re helping the child to desire what is good and right and beautiful and true. The goal that we have for each child is that they become more like their Lord, more like Jesus Christ Himself. Academics, then, falls under the larger umbrella of Christian formation.

 

Spiritual formation and academics are one; they aren’t separate things in an Ambleside education. Every piece of curriculum is carefully chosen accordingly.

 

In math, for instance, we’re not really concerned with what the child now knows. That will grow as their capacity for knowledge grows. But who is the child becoming? How can we use the subject of math to help the child become who they ought to be?

 

This doesn’t diminish the role of academics, but rather, elevates it. We have to have a definite goal in mind for what the child should be becoming. There should be a definite goal — not just what a child should be doing but who he or she IS.

 

Intellect

 

We start this process of becoming Christlike by informing the intellect. We cannot desire that which we do not in some sense understand. So the intellect is necessarily involved. But there is a necessary step beyond the giving of information, and that is the intentional setting of affections on what is good, true, and beautiful.

 

We go through the intellect, if you will, to get to the heart, which is the seat of the child’s emotions and desires and affections. Then we start to inform those desires and inform those affections which shape the heart. We get at that through the whole of the curriculum.

 

Once desire is established, then follows will and action, as it did with Eve.

 

Habits

 

The next step in spiritual formation, then, is habit formation, one of the pillars of a living education. Habits run along the lines of the desires that are already in place, but they strengthen those desires, confirming and solidifying them. With the youngest of children you can start to put habits in place to reinforce the desires that are being formed over time.

 

Habits act to reinforce and strengthen, but they are not a replacement for having love for Christ in the heart. Habits alone are not enough.

 

When we put beautiful things before a child, something within them responds to that beauty. God has created them so that they will only be satisfied with the highest beauty. They will not be satisfied with anything less than what is most good and most true and most beautiful, which is Jesus Christ Himself.

 

Caleb Douglas

Headmaster

The Augustine Academy

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An Intimate Education https://amblesideschools.org/an-intimate-education/ Fri, 17 Jan 2025 16:08:11 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=2341 Charlotte Mason's principles reveal profound truths about the nature of the world, the person, and education itself. Embracing these counter-cultural implications unveils the beauty and necessity of an Ambleside education.

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An Intimate Education

We may believe that a person — I have a ‘baby person’ in view — I is put into this most delightful world for the express purpose of forming ties of intimacy, joy, association, and knowledge with the living and moving things that are therein, with what St. Francis would have called his brother the mountain and his brother the ant and his brothers in the starry heavens. Fulness of living, joy in life, depend, far more than we know, upon the establishment of these relations. What do we do?1

If a person seeks to grasp the distinctive virtues of an Ambleside education, he or she would do well to begin by contemplating the above passage. Here, Charlotte Mason makes profound claims as to the nature of the world, the nature of a person, and the implied nature of education. Understand the counter-cultural implications of the above statement, and one begins to understand the beauty and necessity of an Ambleside education.

 

This Most Delightful World

 

The Bible’s creation story concludes “God saw everything that he had made, and indeed, it was very good.” Indeed, God’s world is good and beautiful. While Adam’s fall was a damned disaster, introducing corruption, death, and a demonic power structure into God’s good world. Still, the disaster has always been mitigated by a common grace. Corruption, death, and demonic influence have never been the most essential nor most important thing about any aspect of creation. We remember that:

 

All things came into being through Him, and without him not one thing came into being. What has come into being in Him was life, and the life was the light of all people. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not overcome it.

 

Even in our fallen world, where Satan is the “ruler of the power of the air,” the light of the Eternal Word continues to shine through His creation. And where the Word shines there is Goodness, Truth, and Beauty. Because He is the source of the birds of the air, they participate in His Goodness and Beauty. The same can be said of the flowers of the field whom God clothes more splendidly than any man ever dressed. There is in the created world an abundance of truth and beauty.

 

The heavens are telling the glory of God,
and the firmament proclaims his handiwork.
Day to day pours forth speech,
and night to night declares knowledge.

 

To the undebauched eye, beauty is delightful. To know quartz and quasars, robins and rhododendrons, tyrannosauruses and tidewaters as beautiful things is to delight in our Father’s world. And there is more.

 

Though fallen from their full glory, the children of Adam remain bearers of the Imago Dei (Divine Image) and thus capable of their own good and beautiful works. To the extent that human works participate in the Good and Beautiful, they too are delightful. Wordsworth’s daffodils, Heidi’s compassion for grandmother, Elizabeth Bennet’s newfound humility, the Scarlett Pimpernels’ sagacity, Lord Nelson’s courage, Gerard Manley Hopkin’s dappled things, von Gogh’s stars, and Tchaikovsky’s cannons all evoke the “Beauty Sense” which is the power to delight in the Good. Such human creations participate in the Good and Beautiful and make the nurtured heart smile.

 

Made for Intimate Ties of Joy

 

Children are made for intimate, joyful association and knowledge. An infant’s first questions (though pre-verbal) are “To whom do I belong?” “Will she keep me safe?” and “Can we share joy together?” If the answer comes back you belong to me, I will keep you safe, and we share much joy together, the child grows a resilient core ordered to joyful connection. If the toddler discovers there is no one who offers him belonging, he is not safe in a bad and scary world, and there is no one with whom he can regularly share joy, he develops a fractured identity and apart from the grace of God may never fully recover.

 

If an infant has formed secure, joyful attachments with her parents and thus a fundamentally joyful identity, her baseline emotional state is joy. And as a toddler, she begins the great adventure of (1) exploring the world and (2) discovering what she can do. Buzzing bees, singing robins, dogs and cats, dirt and sand, building blocks and story books, they are all so delightful. And what joy to pour and to splash, to dance and to climb, to build and to color, to pretend and to sing. The relational joy first experienced with mother and father is extending into the world.

 

It is worth pointing out that we, humans, have two distinct motivational systems:

 

  1. Joy – “It is good to be me here with these persons and/or things. I am motivated to build more joy for myself and for others.”
  2. Angst – “I’m distressed. Cortisol levels are high. It’ is not good to be me here with these persons and/or things. I must manage this by any means available.”

At any given moment, each one of us is either running on joy, running on angst, or depressed (not running at all). As Christ followers, we are called to minimize the time we are running on angst and to maximize the time we are running on joy. (Note: Joy is not self-indulgence nor is it a devil-may-care attitude.) As Jesus said to His disciples on the night before he died, “Let not your hearts be troubled.” And ” I have said these things to you so that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be complete.”

 

As a child launches into the world, she requires an abundance of joyful encounters with good, true, and beautiful persons and things. She will undoubtedly experience angst. But if her parents have raised her well, she will have a joyful identity and know how to efficiently return from angst back to joy.

 

Still, evil is seductive and every child a sinner who will be tempted to abandon joy for pride, power, or pleasure. At times, children push down their little sisters, throw tantrums when failing to get their way, rebel against their duties, and defy their parents. But such things are the fruit of angst, not joy. Furthermore, as a rule, children of joy are far more likely to delight in their relationship with their Heavenly Father than are children of angst. Much of the art of good parenting is the building a reservoir of joyful memories and building a child’s capacity to easily and efficiently return from angst to joy.

 

At five, a joyful child is ready for school, and he has a distinct advantage. Human brains run best on joy. A joyful brain functions much better than the anxious, agitated, or depressed brain. Joy supports brain growth. Specifically, it contributes to the generation and reinforcement of new brain synapses. The prefrontal cortex, which is the executive and integrative center of brain-mind functions, operates much more efficiently when joyful. Research suggests that cognitive functions such as speed and memory are stronger under the influence of joy. Thus, if school administrators and teachers desire their students to “succeed” academically, they must be ambassadors of joy. And far more importantly, if they wish their students to mature into the men and women the Father intended, they must be ambassadors of joy.

 

Schools of Joy

 

Joyful Belonging

 

The dynamics of joyful belonging which are true of parents and their children are also true of teachers and their students. Ella’s classroom is a place of serenity and delight. Her teacher is a peaceful presence, untroubled by student weakness and quick to help. Authoritative with a smile, there is no doubt who is in charge but always with tender empathy and always ready service for the children’s well-being. Everyone is safe, everyone belongs, and everyone is glad to be together. The essential emotional-relational context is present for delight-filled learning.

 

In contrast, Johnny’s classroom is an anxious, sometimes angry, place. No one really wants to be there, not even Johnny’s teacher, and all perceive it in the air. Lacking emotional, relational security, students either go inward (withdrawing into quiet mental distraction) or act outward (provoking chaos for attention’s sake). While negative attention is a pathetic substitute for joyful belonging, for a child, anything is better than sitting quietly in anxious emptiness. The teacher alternates between avoidance (ignoring misbehavior) and aggression (seeking to control student behavior by overpowering). Certain that the problem is the class, the teacher fails to see that her students are behaving in a manner quite normal for children who lack secure belonging and find no joy in being together.

 

There is an atmosphere present in every home and every school. It is an emotional/ relational context, present and palpable. Everyone inhales it, exhales it, and lives accordingly. There is nothing more essential to establishing a healthy home or school than that the atmosphere be one of joyful belonging.

 

Two thousand years ago, the apostle Paul exhorted the church of Colossae to foster joyful belonging, commanding “Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts.” Obedience to this command is an essential part of being an Ambleside teacher.

 

Every teacher fails, but failures can be forgiven, if owned. Children recognize a heart that is pursuing love and peace and will quickly embrace a repentant heart that is seeking to love and to grow, but children abhor self-righteousness and relational distance. Without a loving and peaceful heart, a teacher has no credibility and no capacity to positively form the hearts of her students. Love and peace, the foundations of joyful belonging, grant one the right to positively shape the heart of another.

 

Delightful Study

 

If joyful belonging is the essential air of a flourishing class (and home), delightful studies are the nourishment. The work of the classroom should be a source of joy. If it is not, something has gone terribly wrong. If a student does not delight in math or science, history or literature, something has gone terribly wrong.

 

To be clear, this is no advocacy for tantalizing students with sweet treats, silly games, costumes, or teacher antics. In truth, the presence of such things damages students’ delight in learning in the same way that an appetizer of chocolate cake and ice cream provides little nourishment and damages taste for a healthy supper.

 

We must offer every child vital relations with persons and things, with flora and fauna, with stars and microbes, with the wonder of number, with the best literature, with persons past and present, and all the work we give them must be “worthy work.” In so doing, as Charlotte Mason wrote, “Studies serve for delight.”

 

Joy Destroyers

 

Nothing strips a classroom of joy like dividing between the “gifted” and less than “gifted,” the beautiful and less than beautiful, the high achievers and the low achievers, the haves and the have nots, those of the included inner circle and those cast to the periphery. In such a class, belonging is conditional and therefore no one truly belongs. Performance anxiety is high as some race to the top. Melancholy is also high as many despair, unable to compete. Special awards that exalt the few over the many, grades and grade envy, all such things destroy joy and have no place at an Ambleside school.

 

It should be noted that nothing sucks the life out of a class like a teacher’s lecture in which she collects, arranges, and illustrates matter from various sources; offering knowledge in a too condensed and pre-prepared form; thereby robbing students of the opportunity to develop their own relationships with persons and things.

 

An Intimate Existence

 

The Christian doctrine of the Trinity is not just an esoteric, theological nicety, it is fundamental. Trinitarian doctrine maintains that the essential nature of existence is interpersonal intimacy, joyful relationship in love. No other theological system makes such a claim. As those created in the Imago Dei [God’s image], our fulfillment as persons is analogously predicated upon intimacy, joyful relationship in love, with a multitude of persons and things, and ultimately upon that highest intimacy which is a participation in the joy and love that is the inner life of the Trinity. Ambleside schools exist for the purpose of fostering such joyful intimacies from which flow true fruitfulness and fulness of living.

 

Bill St. Cyr

Founder, Director of Training

1 Charlotte Mason, School Education, (Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., 1989) 75.

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What A School Is Required To Be https://amblesideschools.org/what-a-school-is-required-to-be/ Fri, 30 Aug 2024 20:05:51 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=2233 In a world where education often feels like a competition, the Ambleside Method offers a refreshing perspective: a school should be a sanctuary of belonging, joy, and disciplined harmony, where students learn not for rewards, but for the sheer delight of discovery and shared growth.

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What A School Is Required To Be

In a world where education often feels like a competition, the Ambleside Method offers a refreshing perspective: a school should be a sanctuary of belonging, joy, and disciplined harmony, where students learn not for rewards, but for the sheer delight of discovery and shared growth.

 

“A proper setting for the beauty of a child’s life is what a school is required to be.”1

 

Marion Berry begins with the ideal, establishing a proper school setting consisting of:

 

  • A place of belonging — Young children recognize sociability as the first gift they have to give. With smiling faces towards friends, they offer companionship to one another. They see themselves as belonging to an “us”.
  • The joy of combined effort — Children naturally break off into teams to play tag in the playground’s woods or to gain knowledge of math, history, poetry and literature, delighting with classmates and teacher.

A vivid image comes forth when I think about “us” Observing in an Ambleside classroom, a narration; heads down, pencils move rapidly, so as not to miss a thought.  Silence is interrupted, a student calls out, “How do you spell furrowed?” A student responds, “lower case f, double r.” After some time, another student leaves his seat at the request of a classmate to spell, uproariously and writes the word on the classroom board.

 

Most adults and children experience relationships in schools, sports, clubs, and sometimes family life as fundamentally rivalrous. Most of the time striving is incentivized by systems of rewards and punishments and cajoling by parents and teachers. It is a common fallacy that “the best way to get something done is to provide a reward to people when they act the way we want them to.”2

 

One might ask, what stimulates students to respond with the humility and helpfulness described above?  “The indispensable link between the two ideas, companionship and cooperation, is discipline.”3 Discipline implies right ordering, which is necessarily imparted by loving instruction. Under joyful discipline, students respond to the work before them, not as something to get through or for the sake of reward, or to avoid punishment, but as a combined effort of belonging and working in harmony; our way of being at Ambleside.

 

In Ambleside Schools students are instructed in high standards of reasonable behavior and conscientious work. Maintenance of such standards is not achieved by a scheme of rewards and punishments. Rather, they are breathed in from the pervading atmosphere of strenuous happiness, of expectations through the varied relationships of teacher and students, a collaborative sense of duty with one another, and individual effort in an approach to all work, be it reading, mathematics, or school chores.

 

A grateful school parent told Marion Berry, “You really do give the children something to live by.” What are your children living by in this coming school year? Will it be a proper setting for the beauty of your child’s life?

 

Maryellen St. Cyr

Founder, Director of Curriculum

Ambleside Schools International

1 Marion Berry, I Buy A School, (London: Avon Books,1996), Prologue.

2 Alfie Kohn, Punished by Rewards, (New York: Houghton Mifflin,1993), 3.

3 Marion Berry, I Buy A School, (London: Avon Books,1996), Prologue.

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Education as Gradgrind or Fulness of Living https://amblesideschools.org/education-as-gradgrind-or-fulness-of-living/ Fri, 16 Aug 2024 20:01:36 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=2209 Like so many of Charles Dickens’ wonderful characters, Thomas Gradgrind is a caricature but a caricature with a point.

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Education as Gradgrind or Fulness of Living

Like so many of Charles Dickens’ wonderful characters, Thomas Gradgrind is a caricature but a caricature with a point.

 

‘Now, what I want is Facts. Teach these boys and girls nothing but Facts.  Facts alone are wanted in life. Plant nothing else and root out everything else. You can only form the minds of reasoning animals upon Facts: nothing else will ever be of any service to them. This is the principle on which I bring up my own children, and this is the principle on which I bring up these children. Stick to Facts, sir!”

 

Thomas Gradgrind, sir. A man of realities. A man of facts and calculations. A man who proceeds upon the principle that two and two are four, and nothing over, and who is not to be talked into allowing for anything over. Thomas Gradgrind, sir—peremptorily Thomas—Thomas Gradgrind. With a rule and a pair of scales, and the multiplication table always in his pocket, sir, ready to weigh and measure any parcel of human nature and tell you exactly what it comes to. It is a mere question of figures, a case of simple arithmetic.1

 

A Gradgrind education takes it as a given that students are merely rational bipeds with an opposable thumb who possess all the potentialities, capacities and needs of highly complex, organic machines. It conceives of students as material girls and boys living in a material world, who are themselves matters of fact and who must learn their facts (with, time permitting, a periodic nod to the cultivation of cognitive faculties as suggested by Bloom’s taxonomy or the like). To be sure, such a view of education fails to reflect the heart of most educators, who care deeply for their students and long for them to flourish. Yet, it is generally reflective of the classroom experience of most students, who perceive school as an institution one attends for the purpose of mastering facts and algorithms, to get an acceptable grade and progress to the next set of facts and algorithms. Educators and students alike generally understand that the educator’s job is to facilitate this progression. Such educators function as an “instructor” and are not worthy of the title “teacher.”

 

How very different is the description Helen Keller provides of her teacher, Anne Sullivan.

 

The most important day I remember in all my life is the one on which my teacher, Anne Mansfield Sullivan, came to me. I am filled with wonder when I consider the immeasurable contrasts between the two lives which it connects. It was the third of March 1887, three months before I was seven years old.

 

On the afternoon of that eventful day, I stood on the porch, dumb, expectant. I guessed vaguely from my mother’s signs and from the hurrying to and fro in the house that something unusual was about to happen, so I went to the door and waited on the steps. The afternoon sun penetrated the mass of honeysuckle that covered the porch and fell on my upturned face. My fingers lingered almost unconsciously on the familiar leaves and blossoms which had just come forth to greet the sweet southern spring. I did not know what the future held of marvel or surprise for me. Anger and bitterness had preyed upon me continually for weeks and a deep languor had succeeded this passionate struggle.

 

Have you ever been at sea in a dense fog, when it seemed as if a tangible white darkness shut you in, and the great ship, tense and anxious, groped her way toward the shore with plummet and sounding line, and you waited with beating heart for something to happen? I was like that ship before my education began, only I was without compass or sounding line, and had no way of knowing how near the harbor was. “Light! give me light!” was the wordless cry of my soul, and the light of love shone on me in that very hour.

 

I felt approaching footsteps, I stretched out my hand as I supposed to my mother. Someone took it, and I was caught up and held close in the arms of her who had come to reveal all things to me, and, more than all things else, to love me.2

 

As Anne brought life to Helen, so teachers at Ambleside bring life to their students. Contrary to Thomas Gradgrind and most of contemporary pedagogical practices, we join Charlotte Mason in the conviction that the right kind of education leads to “fulness of joy in living.”

 

Later, we step in to educate him. In proportion to the range of living relationships we put in his way, will he have wide and vital interests, fulness of joy in living. In proportion as he is made aware of the laws which rule every relationship, will his life be dutiful and serviceable: as he learns that no relation with persons or with things, animate or inanimate, can be maintained without strenuous effort, will he learn the laws of work and the joys of work. Our part is to remove obstructions and to give stimulus and guidance to the child who is trying to get into touch with the universe of things and thoughts which belongs to him.3

 

To be clear, at Ambleside, we believe that instruction in the facts and algorithms of history, literature, math, science, and the remainder of the curriculum are secondary to the cultivation of “fulness of living.” We further believe that the fulness of living includes delightful learning of history, literature, math, science, and the remainder of the curriculum; that without these there is no fulness of living.

1 Charles Dickens, Hard Times, (New York, NY: Penguin Classics, 1995) 10-12.

2 Helen Keller, The Story of My Life, (Mineola, NY: Dover Publications, 1996) 13-14.

3 Charlotte Mason, School Education, (Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., 1989) 187-188.

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Ideas to Ponder https://amblesideschools.org/ideas-to-ponder/ https://amblesideschools.org/ideas-to-ponder/#respond Wed, 01 Feb 2023 00:00:22 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=1275 As an Ambleside teacher, we often discuss our “paradigm shift’ – from textbooks, grades, and stickers to “living books,” “narrations,” and “habits.” It’s difficult, for many of us. We’re not just learning about a method of education; we’re learning again how to learn.

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Ideas to Ponder

As an Ambleside teacher, we often discuss our “paradigm shift’ – from textbooks, grades, and stickers to “living books,” “narrations,” and “habits.”

 

It’s difficult, for many of us.

 

We’re not just learning about a method of education; we’re learning again how to learn. Often, I hear a parent say, “I’m glad my children are getting this kind of education.”  You ought to be glad! I would know. I was one of them.

 

Before I was sixteen years old, I had never received a formal grade. I wrote my first formal essay when I was fourteen. We used a science textbook once for about two weeks before my mother threw it out. In our home there were no workbooks, stickers, rewards, or detentions. We were expected to do as we ought, because we ought.

 

You see, I was blessed to grow up in a Charlotte Mason homeschool. My mother read For the Children’s Sake while my sister and I played pioneers in the woods or drew the solar system on the sidewalk. Our school day was full of books and more books. Queen Elizabeth, Bilbo Baggins, the planet Saturn, Purple Coneflowers, and Leonardo da Vinci were among our daily acquaintances. We ‘retold’ the stories from our lessons in the car, in the kitchen, and in copybooks that are still stacked in the backs of our closets. Education in our home meant the direct confrontation with real things – real books, real nature, real ideas – and the struggle that follows as your mind takes in and digests new knowledge.

 

“The mind feeds on ideas,” Charlotte Mason wrote,

“and therefore children should have a generous curriculum.”

 

From a young age, I was privileged to feed deeply and widely at a banquet of knowledge. We reflected upon and discussed ideas, not just facts. And we cared about what we learned. We cried when Beth died in Little Women and became outraged at Benedict Arnold’s treachery. Everything we read took root inside us, and we lived it. This is a joy that I now experience alongside my students each day, in my Ambleside classroom. I see the excitement on their faces, and I recognize it because I have felt it, too.

 

At times, I think this method of education seemed frivolous to outsiders -– as though my parents weren’t concerned enough about our preparation for college or the workplace, as though they were gambling with our future.

 

But a Charlotte Mason education is an inheritance within.

 

Jesus said, “The good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth what is good.” ~ Luke 6:45

 

On the outside, this education may seem impractical, but on the inside a child has amassed a treasure beyond rubies – and certainly beyond any career goal or college award. I have never wished that my parents had given me more tests or grades, that they had replaced our family love affair with learning with a staid set of workbooks and drills. But I am thankful every day for the riches of my education.

 

As we partner in this great work of education, let us remember that we are feeding the souls of persons, who deserve to feast on the riches of God’s creation. One day, they will thank you for it.

— An Ambleside Teacher

Image: Benedict Arnold’s Oath of Allegiance, May 30, 1778

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Educating for Relationship https://amblesideschools.org/educating-for-relationship/ https://amblesideschools.org/educating-for-relationship/#respond Tue, 29 Nov 2022 11:00:38 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=1198 When we think of relationships, we usually think of those persons whose lives have touched our lives – family, friends, and co-workers. As important as these are, we must expand our vision.

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Educating for Relationship

Education is the Science of Relations
— Charlotte M. Mason —

 

When we think of relationships, we usually think of those persons whose lives have touched our lives – family, friends, and co-workers. As important as these are, we must expand our vision. For whether this idea is acknowledged or not, we are created for a vast array of relationships – relations with nature and number, art and music, literary characters and historical persons, our culture and the culture of foreign peoples. In all of these, we find the shadow of the eternal Word of whom it is said,

 

“All things came into being through Him and apart from Him nothing came into being.”

 

We are made to know more, not less; to have relationships with more not less.

 

How tragic it is when we find a child’s vision narrowed rather than expanded:

“History is boring.”

“Music is not for me.”

“I don’t like science.”

Even, “I don’t like people.”

 

How does the infinitely curious, confident three-year-old become the apathetic, skeptical eleven-year-old? Mustn’t we adults take responsibility for this?

 

Speaking of her first-grade son, a mother once told me, “My son struggles in math. In fact, our whole family does. He will never do well in math.” I thought to myself, “What a tragic belief.” I responded, “Your son has never had the opportunity to have a relationship with math. He is only six years old. This year, let’s believe in him and support him in establishing the ‘right relationship’ with math.”

 

This mother, herself lacking a vital relationship with mathematics, was in the process of passing on the same flawed relationship to her son. We can offer better. But, we must believe that better is possible. We must believe that, as bearers of the divine image, all children are created to know. We must be careful not to limit them because of our own fears and prejudices.

 

In Charlotte Mason’s words:

 

Education considers what relations are proper to a human being, and in what ways these several relations can best be established; that a human being comes into the world with capacity for many relations; and that we, for our part, have two chief concerns––first, to put him in the way of forming these relations by presenting the right idea at the right time, and by forming the right habit upon the right idea; and, secondly, by not getting in the way and so preventing the establishment of the very relations we seek to form.

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