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Pursuit of the True Self

An Address to the Graduates of Ambleside of the Willamette Valley

Brennan and Georgia, I have known you for eight years. And I must begin by stating how much I like you. I genuinely do. It should be that way, for you are God’s dream. Before the foundation of the world, you began as a dream in the mind and heart of the Father. Before any of this world came to be, He thought of you. And He knew that on the appointed day at the appointed time, not from the desire of man or by the desire of the flesh, but according to His good purposes, you would be born into this world, born to be with us and we with you.

 

And He knew that in the fullness of time you would come to Ambleside. Not a mistake, not an accident, not a product of chance. Because you see, the Father has always had one agenda. His agenda is always that we might become what He has intended us to be. That is our mission – to become what He had in mind when he dreamed us, before the foundations of the world, to be a unique expression of His love in the world.

 

Young friends, anyone who knows you knows that you are quite different, quite unique expressions of God’s love in the world. I have many distinct memories of you. It has been my great privilege to fly in a couple of times a year. And so, I have snapshots of each of you, as you have grown. I have a portfolio in memory of a boy becoming a man and a girl becoming a woman.

 

I am going to Miss Georgia’s smile. When I arrived, she would invariably greet me with the gift of a bright face. Like she is a charter member of the Smiling Hearts Club. And Brennan is a rock. I have watched him grow from the somewhat bedazzled stance of “What’s going on here? I am not sure what I think about all this,” to “Move over, I have this. I will take care of the problem.” Both of you have been and are becoming who you were made to be – not by chance, not by accident, but by the intention of our Father in heaven.

 

Allow me to offer a few reminders, as you enter into the next season, not leaving us, for you are part of us and will remain part of us. Let us call these reminders:

 

Five Keys to the Pursuit of the True Self.

 

First, talk to Jesus about everything. Talk with Him, not just at Him. Begin doing so now and in 50 years, He will be as real to you as any person in this room. For 50 years, I have been pursuing Him in this way, and He is as real to me as you are. He is sitting right over there. He and I have been conversing about what I should say. Not that I always understand perfectly. But my point is that you too can maintain an ongoing conversation with Him. Jesus is not just an idea, not just an ideology, not just a set of theological principles, but a risen, present, Savior and Lord, one who knows you, walks with you, loves you, guides you, consults with you, grieves with you, and laughs with you. Talk with Him about everything.

 

Second, master the art of returning to joy. In this world you will have tribulation. Tribulation without is always an opportunity. When you possess the capacity to return to joy, tribulation becomes an opportunity to shine the light and life of Christ. Tribulation within is the devil’s playground. Having lost your way (the way to joy), the enemy will yank your chain all over the place. Return to joy and the enemy loses his power. The art of getting back to peace and of returning to joy is a learned skill, and one learns it by practice. One learns it by being with people who know how to do it. And one learns it by talking to Him. One of the things that I have learned is that when I am aware of His presence, when He is as real to me as you are, I am invulnerable. Master the art of returning to Joy.

 

Third, love the person before you. Each person that comes before you is an opportunity. He or she is never a problem. He or she only becomes a problem when you have a problem. Otherwise, every person is an opportunity. Now, it does take growth, and it takes practice. You will mess up. You will fail to love. Growth is a trajectory. Love the person before you, and when you drop the ball, ask forgiveness, pick it up and go. Every person that the Father brings to you is there for a reason. You go nowhere by accident. Every person who crosses your path is an opportunity. The ministry is not out there; the ministry is right in front of you.

 

Fourth, delight in all that is good. In Charlotte Mason’s words, studies serve to delight.” Delight in the birds of the air, the flowers of the field. Delight in engineering, solving problems, and in loving your roommate. Delight in music, delight in physics, delight in science, delight in great literature, and delight in poetry. So much has been given to you. Given for your delight. But like fine wine, most delights are acquired tastes. Nobody enjoys golf the first time they swing a golf club. Few things are enjoyed until you develop the necessary set of habits and skills. One of Ambleside’s gifts to you is an impressive set of habits and skills to delight. Carry on, enjoy. Such is the desire of the Father. He delights in our delighting in His good, true, and beautiful gifts.

 

Finally, wherever you go, find a band of Jesus people. It may be a truism, but it must be remembered; we are all the average of our five best friends. As I look across my life, those who have gone on faithfully with Jesus are always the ones who have found a tribe, a community, a group of Jesus people. Lose that and you will drift. Regardless of your commitment to the gospel, without a tribe, without a band of Jesus people, you will not be able to sustain your communion with Him. You will forget who you are. As you go off to college, the most important question for you or any graduate to answer is: Who are my people? Find a band of Jesus people.

 

Thank you for the joy and privilege of sharing these years with you, and I look forward to seeing how you continue to grow to be who we were created to be. Bless you.

 

Bill St. Cyr

Co-Founder and Director of Training

Ambleside Schools International

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An Intimate Education https://amblesideschools.org/an-intimate-education/ Fri, 17 Jan 2025 16:08:11 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=2341 Charlotte Mason's principles reveal profound truths about the nature of the world, the person, and education itself. Embracing these counter-cultural implications unveils the beauty and necessity of an Ambleside education.

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We may believe that a person — I have a ‘baby person’ in view — I is put into this most delightful world for the express purpose of forming ties of intimacy, joy, association, and knowledge with the living and moving things that are therein, with what St. Francis would have called his brother the mountain and his brother the ant and his brothers in the starry heavens. Fulness of living, joy in life, depend, far more than we know, upon the establishment of these relations. What do we do?1

If a person seeks to grasp the distinctive virtues of an Ambleside education, he or she would do well to begin by contemplating the above passage. Here, Charlotte Mason makes profound claims as to the nature of the world, the nature of a person, and the implied nature of education. Understand the counter-cultural implications of the above statement, and one begins to understand the beauty and necessity of an Ambleside education.

 

This Most Delightful World

 

The Bible’s creation story concludes “God saw everything that he had made, and indeed, it was very good.” Indeed, God’s world is good and beautiful. While Adam’s fall was a damned disaster, introducing corruption, death, and a demonic power structure into God’s good world. Still, the disaster has always been mitigated by a common grace. Corruption, death, and demonic influence have never been the most essential nor most important thing about any aspect of creation. We remember that:

 

All things came into being through Him, and without him not one thing came into being. What has come into being in Him was life, and the life was the light of all people. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not overcome it.

 

Even in our fallen world, where Satan is the “ruler of the power of the air,” the light of the Eternal Word continues to shine through His creation. And where the Word shines there is Goodness, Truth, and Beauty. Because He is the source of the birds of the air, they participate in His Goodness and Beauty. The same can be said of the flowers of the field whom God clothes more splendidly than any man ever dressed. There is in the created world an abundance of truth and beauty.

 

The heavens are telling the glory of God,
and the firmament proclaims his handiwork.
Day to day pours forth speech,
and night to night declares knowledge.

 

To the undebauched eye, beauty is delightful. To know quartz and quasars, robins and rhododendrons, tyrannosauruses and tidewaters as beautiful things is to delight in our Father’s world. And there is more.

 

Though fallen from their full glory, the children of Adam remain bearers of the Imago Dei (Divine Image) and thus capable of their own good and beautiful works. To the extent that human works participate in the Good and Beautiful, they too are delightful. Wordsworth’s daffodils, Heidi’s compassion for grandmother, Elizabeth Bennet’s newfound humility, the Scarlett Pimpernels’ sagacity, Lord Nelson’s courage, Gerard Manley Hopkin’s dappled things, von Gogh’s stars, and Tchaikovsky’s cannons all evoke the “Beauty Sense” which is the power to delight in the Good. Such human creations participate in the Good and Beautiful and make the nurtured heart smile.

 

Made for Intimate Ties of Joy

 

Children are made for intimate, joyful association and knowledge. An infant’s first questions (though pre-verbal) are “To whom do I belong?” “Will she keep me safe?” and “Can we share joy together?” If the answer comes back you belong to me, I will keep you safe, and we share much joy together, the child grows a resilient core ordered to joyful connection. If the toddler discovers there is no one who offers him belonging, he is not safe in a bad and scary world, and there is no one with whom he can regularly share joy, he develops a fractured identity and apart from the grace of God may never fully recover.

 

If an infant has formed secure, joyful attachments with her parents and thus a fundamentally joyful identity, her baseline emotional state is joy. And as a toddler, she begins the great adventure of (1) exploring the world and (2) discovering what she can do. Buzzing bees, singing robins, dogs and cats, dirt and sand, building blocks and story books, they are all so delightful. And what joy to pour and to splash, to dance and to climb, to build and to color, to pretend and to sing. The relational joy first experienced with mother and father is extending into the world.

 

It is worth pointing out that we, humans, have two distinct motivational systems:

 

  1. Joy – “It is good to be me here with these persons and/or things. I am motivated to build more joy for myself and for others.”
  2. Angst – “I’m distressed. Cortisol levels are high. It’ is not good to be me here with these persons and/or things. I must manage this by any means available.”

At any given moment, each one of us is either running on joy, running on angst, or depressed (not running at all). As Christ followers, we are called to minimize the time we are running on angst and to maximize the time we are running on joy. (Note: Joy is not self-indulgence nor is it a devil-may-care attitude.) As Jesus said to His disciples on the night before he died, “Let not your hearts be troubled.” And ” I have said these things to you so that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be complete.”

 

As a child launches into the world, she requires an abundance of joyful encounters with good, true, and beautiful persons and things. She will undoubtedly experience angst. But if her parents have raised her well, she will have a joyful identity and know how to efficiently return from angst back to joy.

 

Still, evil is seductive and every child a sinner who will be tempted to abandon joy for pride, power, or pleasure. At times, children push down their little sisters, throw tantrums when failing to get their way, rebel against their duties, and defy their parents. But such things are the fruit of angst, not joy. Furthermore, as a rule, children of joy are far more likely to delight in their relationship with their Heavenly Father than are children of angst. Much of the art of good parenting is the building a reservoir of joyful memories and building a child’s capacity to easily and efficiently return from angst to joy.

 

At five, a joyful child is ready for school, and he has a distinct advantage. Human brains run best on joy. A joyful brain functions much better than the anxious, agitated, or depressed brain. Joy supports brain growth. Specifically, it contributes to the generation and reinforcement of new brain synapses. The prefrontal cortex, which is the executive and integrative center of brain-mind functions, operates much more efficiently when joyful. Research suggests that cognitive functions such as speed and memory are stronger under the influence of joy. Thus, if school administrators and teachers desire their students to “succeed” academically, they must be ambassadors of joy. And far more importantly, if they wish their students to mature into the men and women the Father intended, they must be ambassadors of joy.

 

Schools of Joy

 

Joyful Belonging

 

The dynamics of joyful belonging which are true of parents and their children are also true of teachers and their students. Ella’s classroom is a place of serenity and delight. Her teacher is a peaceful presence, untroubled by student weakness and quick to help. Authoritative with a smile, there is no doubt who is in charge but always with tender empathy and always ready service for the children’s well-being. Everyone is safe, everyone belongs, and everyone is glad to be together. The essential emotional-relational context is present for delight-filled learning.

 

In contrast, Johnny’s classroom is an anxious, sometimes angry, place. No one really wants to be there, not even Johnny’s teacher, and all perceive it in the air. Lacking emotional, relational security, students either go inward (withdrawing into quiet mental distraction) or act outward (provoking chaos for attention’s sake). While negative attention is a pathetic substitute for joyful belonging, for a child, anything is better than sitting quietly in anxious emptiness. The teacher alternates between avoidance (ignoring misbehavior) and aggression (seeking to control student behavior by overpowering). Certain that the problem is the class, the teacher fails to see that her students are behaving in a manner quite normal for children who lack secure belonging and find no joy in being together.

 

There is an atmosphere present in every home and every school. It is an emotional/ relational context, present and palpable. Everyone inhales it, exhales it, and lives accordingly. There is nothing more essential to establishing a healthy home or school than that the atmosphere be one of joyful belonging.

 

Two thousand years ago, the apostle Paul exhorted the church of Colossae to foster joyful belonging, commanding “Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts.” Obedience to this command is an essential part of being an Ambleside teacher.

 

Every teacher fails, but failures can be forgiven, if owned. Children recognize a heart that is pursuing love and peace and will quickly embrace a repentant heart that is seeking to love and to grow, but children abhor self-righteousness and relational distance. Without a loving and peaceful heart, a teacher has no credibility and no capacity to positively form the hearts of her students. Love and peace, the foundations of joyful belonging, grant one the right to positively shape the heart of another.

 

Delightful Study

 

If joyful belonging is the essential air of a flourishing class (and home), delightful studies are the nourishment. The work of the classroom should be a source of joy. If it is not, something has gone terribly wrong. If a student does not delight in math or science, history or literature, something has gone terribly wrong.

 

To be clear, this is no advocacy for tantalizing students with sweet treats, silly games, costumes, or teacher antics. In truth, the presence of such things damages students’ delight in learning in the same way that an appetizer of chocolate cake and ice cream provides little nourishment and damages taste for a healthy supper.

 

We must offer every child vital relations with persons and things, with flora and fauna, with stars and microbes, with the wonder of number, with the best literature, with persons past and present, and all the work we give them must be “worthy work.” In so doing, as Charlotte Mason wrote, “Studies serve for delight.”

 

Joy Destroyers

 

Nothing strips a classroom of joy like dividing between the “gifted” and less than “gifted,” the beautiful and less than beautiful, the high achievers and the low achievers, the haves and the have nots, those of the included inner circle and those cast to the periphery. In such a class, belonging is conditional and therefore no one truly belongs. Performance anxiety is high as some race to the top. Melancholy is also high as many despair, unable to compete. Special awards that exalt the few over the many, grades and grade envy, all such things destroy joy and have no place at an Ambleside school.

 

It should be noted that nothing sucks the life out of a class like a teacher’s lecture in which she collects, arranges, and illustrates matter from various sources; offering knowledge in a too condensed and pre-prepared form; thereby robbing students of the opportunity to develop their own relationships with persons and things.

 

An Intimate Existence

 

The Christian doctrine of the Trinity is not just an esoteric, theological nicety, it is fundamental. Trinitarian doctrine maintains that the essential nature of existence is interpersonal intimacy, joyful relationship in love. No other theological system makes such a claim. As those created in the Imago Dei [God’s image], our fulfillment as persons is analogously predicated upon intimacy, joyful relationship in love, with a multitude of persons and things, and ultimately upon that highest intimacy which is a participation in the joy and love that is the inner life of the Trinity. Ambleside schools exist for the purpose of fostering such joyful intimacies from which flow true fruitfulness and fulness of living.

 

Bill St. Cyr

Founder, Director of Training

1 Charlotte Mason, School Education, (Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., 1989) 75.

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What A School Is Required To Be https://amblesideschools.org/what-a-school-is-required-to-be/ Fri, 30 Aug 2024 20:05:51 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=2233 In a world where education often feels like a competition, the Ambleside Method offers a refreshing perspective: a school should be a sanctuary of belonging, joy, and disciplined harmony, where students learn not for rewards, but for the sheer delight of discovery and shared growth.

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What A School Is Required To Be

In a world where education often feels like a competition, the Ambleside Method offers a refreshing perspective: a school should be a sanctuary of belonging, joy, and disciplined harmony, where students learn not for rewards, but for the sheer delight of discovery and shared growth.

 

“A proper setting for the beauty of a child’s life is what a school is required to be.”1

 

Marion Berry begins with the ideal, establishing a proper school setting consisting of:

 

  • A place of belonging — Young children recognize sociability as the first gift they have to give. With smiling faces towards friends, they offer companionship to one another. They see themselves as belonging to an “us”.
  • The joy of combined effort — Children naturally break off into teams to play tag in the playground’s woods or to gain knowledge of math, history, poetry and literature, delighting with classmates and teacher.

A vivid image comes forth when I think about “us” Observing in an Ambleside classroom, a narration; heads down, pencils move rapidly, so as not to miss a thought.  Silence is interrupted, a student calls out, “How do you spell furrowed?” A student responds, “lower case f, double r.” After some time, another student leaves his seat at the request of a classmate to spell, uproariously and writes the word on the classroom board.

 

Most adults and children experience relationships in schools, sports, clubs, and sometimes family life as fundamentally rivalrous. Most of the time striving is incentivized by systems of rewards and punishments and cajoling by parents and teachers. It is a common fallacy that “the best way to get something done is to provide a reward to people when they act the way we want them to.”2

 

One might ask, what stimulates students to respond with the humility and helpfulness described above?  “The indispensable link between the two ideas, companionship and cooperation, is discipline.”3 Discipline implies right ordering, which is necessarily imparted by loving instruction. Under joyful discipline, students respond to the work before them, not as something to get through or for the sake of reward, or to avoid punishment, but as a combined effort of belonging and working in harmony; our way of being at Ambleside.

 

In Ambleside Schools students are instructed in high standards of reasonable behavior and conscientious work. Maintenance of such standards is not achieved by a scheme of rewards and punishments. Rather, they are breathed in from the pervading atmosphere of strenuous happiness, of expectations through the varied relationships of teacher and students, a collaborative sense of duty with one another, and individual effort in an approach to all work, be it reading, mathematics, or school chores.

 

A grateful school parent told Marion Berry, “You really do give the children something to live by.” What are your children living by in this coming school year? Will it be a proper setting for the beauty of your child’s life?

 

Maryellen St. Cyr

Founder, Director of Curriculum

Ambleside Schools International

1 Marion Berry, I Buy A School, (London: Avon Books,1996), Prologue.

2 Alfie Kohn, Punished by Rewards, (New York: Houghton Mifflin,1993), 3.

3 Marion Berry, I Buy A School, (London: Avon Books,1996), Prologue.

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The Teacher and Joy https://amblesideschools.org/the-teacher-and-joy/ Fri, 31 May 2024 19:10:27 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=2144 Our brains are made to run on joy. A joyful brain functions much better than the anxious, agitated, or depressed brain. Joy supports brain growth. Specifically, it contributes to the generation and reinforcement of new brain synapses.

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The Teacher and Joy

Our brains are made to run on joy. A joyful brain functions much better than the anxious, agitated, or depressed brain. Joy supports brain growth. Specifically, it contributes to the generation and reinforcement of new brain synapses. The prefrontal cortex, which is the executive and integrative center of brain-mind functions, operates much more efficiently when joyful. Research suggests that cognitive functions such as speed and memory are stronger under the influence of joy. Thus, if a teacher desires her students to “succeed” academically, she must be an ambassador of joy. And far more importantly, if a teacher wishes her students to mature into the men and women whom the Father has in mind, she must be an ambassador of joy.

 

Joyful Belonging

 

As those who bear the Divine, Trinitarian image, we are profoundly relational, and our flourishing depends upon our sharing joyful connection with others. Joyful belonging, what developmental psychologists call secure attachment, is essential for human flourishing. The dynamics of attachment which are true of parents and their children are also true of teachers and their students. Ella’s classroom is a place of serenity and delight. Her teacher is a peaceful presence, untroubled by student weakness and quick to help. Authoritative with a smile, there is no doubt who is in charge but always with tender empathy and always ready service for the children’s well-being. Everyone is safe, everyone belongs, and everyone is glad to be together. The essential emotional-relational context is present for delight-filled learning.

 

In contrast, Johnny’s classroom is an anxious, sometimes angry, place. No one really wants to be there, not even Johnny’s teacher, and all perceive it in the air. Lacking emotional, relational security, students either go inward (withdrawing into quiet mental distraction) or act outward (provoking chaos for attention’s sake). While negative attention is a pathetic substitute for joyful belonging, for a child, anything is better than sitting quietly in anxious emptiness. The teacher alternates between avoidance (ignoring misbehavior) and aggression (seeking to control student behavior by overpowering). Certain that the problem is the class, the teacher fails to see that her students are behaving in a manner quite normal for children who lack secure belonging and find no joy in being together.

 

There is an atmosphere present in every home and every school. It is an emotional/ relational context, present and palpable. Everyone inhales it, exhales it, and lives accordingly. There is nothing more essential to establishing a healthy home or school than that the atmosphere be one of joyful belonging.

 

Two thousand years ago, the apostle Paul exhorted the church of Colossae to foster joyful belonging, commanding “Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts.”1 Obedience to this command is an essential part of being an Ambleside teacher.

 

Every teacher fails, but failures can be forgiven, if owned. Children recognize a heart that is pursuing love and peace and will quickly embrace a repentant heart that is seeking to love and to grow, but children abhor self-righteousness and relational distance. Without a loving and peaceful heart, a teacher has no credibility and no capacity to positively form the hearts of her students. Love and peace, the foundations of joyful belonging, grant one the right to positively shape the heart of another.

 

Delightful Study

 

If joyful belonging is the essential air of a flourishing class [and home], delightful studies are the nourishment. The work of the classroom should be a source of joy. If it is not, something has gone terribly wrong. If a student does not delight in math or science, history or literature, something has gone terribly wrong.

 

To be clear, this is no advocacy for tantalizing students with sweet treats, silly games, costumes, or teacher antics. In truth, the presence of such things damages student delight in learning in the same way that an appetizer of chocolate cake and ice cream provides little nourishment and damages taste for a healthy supper.

 

Charlotte Mason points our thinking in the right direction:

 

We may believe that a person—I have a ‘baby person’ in view—is put into this most delightful world for the express purpose of forming ties of intimacy, joy, association, and knowledge with the living and moving things that are therein, with what St Francis would have called his brother the mountain and his brother the ant and his brothers in the starry heavens. Fullness of living, joy in life, depend, far more than we know, upon the establishment of these relations.2

 

We must offer every child vital relations with persons and things, with flora and fauna, with stars and microbes, with the wonder of number, with the best literature, with persons past and present, and all the work we give them must be “worthy work.” In so doing, as Charlotte Mason wrote, “Studies serve for delight.”

 

Joy Destroyers

 

Nothing strips a classroom of joy like dividing between the “gifted” and less than “gifted,” the beautiful and less than beautiful, the high achievers and the low achievers, the haves and the have nots, those of the included inner circle and those cast to the periphery. In such a class, belonging is conditional and therefore no one truly belongs. Performance anxiety is high as some race to the top. Melancholy is also high as many despair, unable to compete. Special awards that exalt the few over the many, grades and grade envy, all such things destroy joy and have no place at an Ambleside school.

 

It should be noted that nothing sucks the life out of a class like a teacher’s lecture in which she collects, arranges, and illustrates matter from various sources; offering knowledge in a too condensed and pre-prepared form; thereby robbing students of the opportunity to develop their own relationships with persons and things.3

 

Bill St. Cyr

Ambleside Founder and Director of Training

1 Colossians 3:14-15 NRSV

2 Charlotte Mason, School Education, (Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., 1989) 75.

3 Ibid. 214.

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Video Series Part 4. The Importance of Atmosphere Chapter One: The Foundation of Joy https://amblesideschools.org/video-series-part-4-the-importance-of-atmosphere-chapter-one-the-foundation-of-joy/ Fri, 08 Sep 2023 20:34:08 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=1751 Charlotte Mason emphasized cultivating an atmosphere conducive to learning and growing. At Ambleside, we take great care to develop such an atmosphere, and our teachers are actively engaged and attuned to what is ‘going around’ in the classroom, on the playground, and through the school hallways.

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Video Series Part 4. The Importance of Atmosphere
Chapter One: The Foundation of Joy

Charlotte Mason emphasized cultivating an atmosphere conducive to learning and growing. At Ambleside, we take great care to develop such an atmosphere, and our teachers are actively engaged and attuned to what is ‘going around’ in the classroom, on the playground, and through the school hallways. Teacher and student learn to consider their influence on the atmosphere—does it reflect our best self and is it for the good of others? One of the most important responsibilities of a teacher is to set an atmosphere of joy in the classroom, the sense “it is good to be me here with you!” The sense of joy is non-verbal-—it is in the air, breathed in by the children.  A joyful atmosphere allows children to feel safe and free of anxiety so their brains are freed to learn and explore. Visitors to Ambleside Schools often remark, “There is peace here. The students’ and teachers’ expressions are genuine, full of delight and full of joy.”

 

This week we continue our video and discussion guide series in the words of Charlotte Mason and with consideration of the importance of a joyful atmosphere in a child’s education.

Both the circle of the family and that of social intercourse are subjected to forces that are active in the entire social body, and that penetrate the entire atmosphere of human life in invisible channels. No one knows whence these currents, these ideas arise; but they are there. They influence the moods, the aspirations, and the inclinations of humanity, and no one, however powerful, can withdraw himself from their effects; no sovereign’s command makes its way into their depths. They are often born of a genius to be seized upon by the multitude that soon forgets their author; then the power of the thought that has thus become active in the masses again impels the individual to energetic resolutions: in this manner it is constantly describing a remarkable circle. Originating with those that are highly gifted, these thoughts permeate all society, reaching, in fact, not only its members, but also through these its youth, and appearing again in other highly gifted individuals in whom they will perhaps have been elevated to a definite form. Whether the power of these dominant ideas is greater in the individual, or in the body of individuals as a whole, is a matter of indifference here. Be that as it may, it cannot be denied that their effect upon the one is manifested in a reciprocal action upon the other, and that their influence upon the younger generation is indisputable.1

 

But, supposing that ‘Education is an Atmosphere’ brings a fresh and vigorous thought to our minds, suppose that it means to us, for our children, sunshine and green fields, pleasant rooms and good pictures, schools where learning is taken in by the gentle act of inspiration, followed by the expiration of all that which is not wanted, where charming teachers compose the children by a half-mesmeric effluence which inclines them to do as others do, be as others are,––suppose that all this is included in our notion of ‘Education is an atmosphere,’ may we not sit at our ease and believe that all is well, and that the whole of education has been accomplished? No; because though we cannot live without air, neither can we live upon air, and children brought up upon ‘environment’ soon begin to show signs of inanition; they have little or no healthy curiosity, power of attention, or of effort; what is worse, they lose spontaneity and initiative; they expect life to drop into them like drops into a rain-tub, without effort or intention on their part.2

 

Questions and Thoughts to Consider:

 

  1. Charlotte Mason talks about forces that penetrate human life through invisible channels, which influence moods, aspiration, and inclinations. Talk about your experience in both a positive and a negative light how these channels have influenced you and others you know.
  2. What are the channels that communicated joy, the idea of “It is good to be me here with you.” when you were growing up?
  3. What are the messages from society that travel through this invisible channel? On what are they based?
  4. What would happen if the air we breathe in a class or home would be all ease?
  5. Describe a joy filled classroom and home when there is challenge and when there are daily rhythms?

1 Charlotte Mason, School Education, 326.

2 Charlotte Mason, School Education, 94.

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Building Joy https://amblesideschools.org/building-joy/ https://amblesideschools.org/building-joy/#respond Fri, 13 May 2022 10:00:53 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=994 In the six volumes of her Home Education Series, Charlotte Mason speaks of joy over 270 times. This is not surprising, for the consistent experience of joy is essential to a child's well-being. Through experience, parents and teachers know how difficult it is to help the sullen child move forward. Ms. Mason would take it a step farther, arguing that “The happiness of the child is the condition of his progress.” Thus, “his lessons should be joyous and that occasions of friction in the schoolroom are greatly to be deprecated.”

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In the six volumes of her Home Education Series, Charlotte Mason speaks of joy over 270 times.  This is not surprising, for the consistent experience of joy is essential to a child’s well-being. Through experience, parents and teachers know how difficult it is to help the sullen child move forward. Ms. Mason would take it a step further, arguing that “The happiness of the child is the condition of his progress.” Thus, “his lessons should be joyous and that occasions of friction in the schoolroom are greatly to be deprecated.”

 

It is important to distinguish between “pleasing” our students and “joy-building.” There is a kind of “pleasing” which occurs when we give a child what she wants. But this type of pleasing is ephemeral. It lasts only until the child’s next “chance desire.”  We have seen far too many children enslaved by their own desires, unable to accept “no”, and tyrannized by the denial of any desire. Such children could never be described as “joy-full.” (In no way am I suggesting that we never grant a child her desires. It’s just that such “pleasing” is secondary to more important concerns.)

 

There is another kind of “pleasing.” It is the deep interpersonal delight, which we call joy. Joy is the first emotion sought by an infant. For a newborn, the concrete symbol of joy is the delight in a parent’s face. An infant responds to the parent’s delight with his/her own delight. Such delight stimulates and cultivates the joy centers of the brain. The face of a delighted parent symbolizes to an infant “it is good to be me (the infant) with you (the parent).” Joy cannot be experienced apart from a relationship with another.

 

But let us consider; the infant is exquisitely aware of every mood of his mother, the little face clouds with grief or beams with joy in response to the expression of hers. The two left to themselves have rare games. He jumps and pulls, crows and chuckles, crawls and kicks and gurgle with joy; and, amid all the play, is taught what he may not do. Hands and feet, legs and arms, fingers and toes, are continually going while he is awake; mouth, eyes and ears are agog. All is play without intention, and mother plays with baby as glad as he. (Charlotte Mason)

 

While joy-building must be an authentic interpersonal process and cannot be fabricated by a series of artificial steps, none-the-less, parents and teachers would do well to cultivate the following habits*:

 

  • Smile whenever you greet your children or students and use sincere voice tones.
  • Each week, take the time to invite each one individually to tell you truthfully how he/she is doing and what he/she is thinking. Listen intently without interrupting.
  • Take a sincere interest in really knowing each of your children and students. Work hard to understand their fears, joys, hopes, passions, talents, and pain.
  • Always treat these with dignity and respect. End discussions in a manner which affirms—neither deny a failure when a failure has occurred nor abandon a student to failure.
  • Use appropriate touch appropriately: Grasp a hand, link arms, place a hand on the shoulder, hug younger children.
  • Discover what brings each of your children and students joy: A time to talk, an encouraging note, a helping hand. Custom fit attempts to bring joy.
  • When a student’s eyes “light up,” catch his/her eye. Allow yourself to share the joy and reflect it back. Joy builds as glances go back and forth.
  • Cherish every child, establishing through words and actions that you are genuinely glad to be with him. If tragically there should be a student whom you struggle to cherish, own it as a profound defect of your own heart and humbly seek help.

 

As a final note, many a marriage could be spared, many a friendship deepened, and many a working alliance strengthened by the regular practice of these “joy-building” disciplines.

*Adapted from The Life Model: Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You by Friesen, Wilder et. al.

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